Where's the Love?

So I think it's incredibly sad that when I'm in so much pain to the point where I'm sure my leg is broken, my fiance's new coworkers and family were more worried about me than my own family.  Even my coworkers were too.  My mom acted like it was an inconvenience, my brother was his usual autistic self, my sister was the only one slightly concerned poking fun at me for being clumsy, dad more worried about my autistic brother getting back in college.  The last straw was I never ask for help unless I need it, and thanks to my medical bills I needed it so I could starve yet pay my car payment.  I asked my pop-pop and he replied that I was an adult.  I feel like I've been totally abandoned by my family.  I don't blame my pop-pop and I'm not mad at him in the slightest.  After how my dad has treated us all when it comes to HIS money, it crushed me.  My dad threw a huge fit recently about how all his money was disappearing before he could use any of it to live large.  Never mind he has three kids and a disabled wife.  Let's rewarded the kid who doesn't do anything with his time besides playing video games with all your attention and make sure he gets to where he needs to in life - never mind it's almost 20 yrs too late.  He should have had this help years ago. 

I've had some issues with all this in the past where it seems that my family just simply does not care unless they stand to gain something.  I'm tired of getting hurt by my own family. 

As I'm typing this my dad is demanding to know whether or not I support the gay agenda.  Hi Dad nice to hear from you too.  Yes my leg is slightly better, still hurts a little.  How was my day? It was ok, how was yours?  Isn't this how normal families talk to one another?  Like I would tell him how I truly feel about it.  Morally I believe it's a sin, legally I don't know.  When it comes down to equal rights then yes.  But only then. 

This answer is demanded of me all because I said something via facebook about how I was so sick and tired of seeing both sides gripe each other out and how they both need to grow up and could use some tolerance toward the other.  I respond well to common decency and if I can't see it then what's the point of picking sides?